Why Too Many Choices Make It Hard to Choose — and How Skillful Makes Pool Table Shopping Simple Again

“I’ll think about it.” We all say it when our brains hit capacity.It sounds thoughtful and responsible — like we’re going home to measure, compare, or reflect.But more often, it’s code for “I can’t process one more decision right now.” Modern life is full of choice overload.A grocery aisle offers 30 kinds of ketchup.Starbucks has… Read more »

Skillful Living: Why What’s Under the Shell Matters Most

Last week I spent nearly a full workday — spread across emails, photos, and follow-ups over the course of a week — just to replace a five-dollar part for my camera. Not five hundred, five dollars. The hours added up: waiting on responses, re-explaining the problem, following up when the part still hadn’t shipped. That’s… Read more »

Skillful Living: Ritual vs. Escape

Ritual vs. Escape: Why we wait for vacations In Maine, people talk about “getting away.” Ask someone their weekend plans and you’ll often hear: “We’re goin’ uptacamp.” It’s part of the rhythm of life here — the lake, the coast, the mountains. These escapes are wonderful. They reset the mind and recharge the spirit. But… Read more »